Author: Ms. Rita's Minute

When someone appears unattractive, undesirable, or downright prickly as a porcupine, we normally define this type of person as unlovable–people who make us cringe during conversation or those who have a slant toward rudeness, perhaps. However, Jesus speaks to us in the Bible about loving others; even our enemies (Matthew 5:43-45). Yet, sometimes, this can seem an unimaginable task. Nevertheless, we as believers, are given the ability to accomplish this goal by the power of the Holy Spirit and “…if we love one another, God lives in us, and his love is made complete in us.” (1 John 4:13)

A healthy observation would be for us to remember how much we’ve changed for the better from the person we knew who had our share of discouraging flaws. We should look to extend to others the grace shown to us when we weren’t as lovely as we deem ourselves today. To that end, we should love “unlovable” people, pray for them and realize that any lasting transformation can only occur via them and God.

Ever think about the style in which Jesus communicated with people? Even a quick scan through the Bible’s New Testament shows us that He didn’t use an excessive number of words to express himself. However, His ability to speak with clarity, authority, and confidence in every situation was striking to behold. His parables and analogies were remarkable, and it appears his audience always departed thoughtful and inspired.

What if we followed His example in how we shared information? Our goal is to specifically ensure that our audience receives the critical points of our message. This doesn’t mean we need to be lengthy in our approach, but we should be distinct in our expression of God’s word to others. What are the key points and conclusions we wish to convey? Our listeners will appreciate simple, uncomplicated methods of speech.